So quick recap on last weeks events - W told me she was desperate for a feeling of love or hope towards me to work on marriage. She told me sees I have changed and she is very conflicted because it is all hurting our son so much. Also said she would contact her lawyer and cancel divorce proceedings - she said we might as well just wait the 2 years so no one needs to be blamed.
She left the house sobbing and promising to keep communication going. All I have had since is cold, short text messages until today when I received an email:
"I just wanted to let you know I have thought about what you have said. Sunday I am taking myself away for the day to have time away from everyone and everything. Time to think and reflect on all that is happening. I hope you can respect this and give me the time you say we have. I had a long talk with Son last night as he just opened up to me about things. He wanted lots of reassurance that I still loved him and that you still loved him. I had a picture book with a story in about a little boy like Son. I read it to him and he just talked about how he felt sad and missed us being together. He said it is different now. He likes daddy days and mummy days."
Wondering what I should be making of this - it's very difficult not to over think it.
Any thoughts or opinions would be greatly appreciated as always...
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013