Remember, if you do decide to share more with them, you are NOT asking them to choose either you or your wife. You are asking them to choose (be in support of) the MARRIAGE.
Absolutely! Other friends have reminded me of the same thing.
So today I was thinking about what was going on in my life last year at this time. It had been 5 months since W dropped the bomb and 3 months since we separated. Oh, and W was in the hospital ICU with severe heart failure. She was literally on her death bed, or so the doctors believed, and so did I!
Fast forward 1 year and W is completely and miraculously recovered. Our M is still in the dumper but at least she has her health. Oh, and she got her dream breast reduction a few months ago. I wonder what things will look like next year at this time.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
