Yes you can google alanon & your state and usually there is a website where you enter your zip.

I wish I could explain in words how alanon will help you but I am not that articulate. This is not a short journey. Your wife is in crisis. Some people take the elevator all the way to the bottom before they see the light.

Take care of yourself and your boys.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13