KG,
Thanks for your support.

I will be D-ed in a matter of weeks now. The process is quick and automatic once the papers have been filed.
Still seems like it's a dream in some respects.

Reminds me of the famed process wherein all an H has to do is say, "I D you", 3 times and the deed is done.

I'm sorry to hear that you are in s similar financial situation.
You're right, we will survive this.

Hope is getting me through now - but it's the small hope that some justice might come out of the court process. Dangerous, I know.

I keep coming back in my posts to the injustice that I feel through all of this. The unfairness of what we are suffering through while stbx lives it up and broadcasts a story that paints me and the kids as the bad guys.

Any advice on how to deal with my feelings in this regard gratefully accepted.