She made some more banking errors again and I had to stop our mortgage from default payment and get the Account up to date and pay bills that are late. She is a bank manager folks. She is not together on so many fronts, though nobody sees it.
I can fully sympathize with your sitch right now. My W hasn't had the hatred for a very long time now (thank God!), but, I think scatterbrained is a very good description for her. I've read thru this thread, and I can say my W was never as hateful as yours seems to be in your posts.
I guess the question in your case is, are these actually errors as in mistakes, is she doing this on purpose or does she not even realize what's happening? I don't know that it matters in your case, but, these are what I have caught myself asking many times over.
