When I was 18 I had a GF that on this day sent me a card with " Happy VD" on it and she kept calling me throughout the day saying "Happy VD". Then later in the evening after we were intimate she said " Happy VD". I got myself checked out and was fine but just wasn't the same and could not date her anymore.
Anyhooooo.....litigation goes on. W nasty again this morning after last night being somewhat cordial. She was overdoing it with doting on d10 then had enough of her and lost her patience again with her at bedtime so d10 left and came to me. The W was all doting again with d10 this morning and nasty with me. Kids have no idea if she will be home for dinner and if so what time. She made some more banking errors again and I had to stop our mortgage from default payment and get the Account up to date and pay bills that are late. She is a bank manager folks. She is not together on so many fronts, though nobody sees it. Problem is if I don't bail out the situations like that it affects my credit. Though my L in in the know of everything so when we go to court this type of irresponsibility comes out and carries weight. Hate to be a narc but gotta look out for me right now. Her bitterness and anger I cannot trust what she will do. Sad, very sad on Valentines Day. Just me and my babies.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
