Hi Angie, sorry you aren't getting more replies, it might be a good idea to place a thread in Newcomers as it gets a lot more traffic.
Everything you describe sounds typical of a WAS. Your H is convinced that he is done, but that doesn't mean he can't change his mind later. It has happened here plenty of times, unfortunately not every time, but enough that it should give you hope. It is imperative that you quit focusing on your H and start focusing on you. You've got to get your self-esteem back, your PMA (positive mental attitude), your confidence and your "swagger". You're never going to stand a chance at getting your H back if you're needy/ clingy. I don't know if that's how you're acting towards him, but I get the impression you are. So get out, GAL, work on yourself. Take stock of what you did wrong in the M and do 180's on those things. Make yourself a better person, a spouse only a fool would leave. And give your H plenty of time and space. Hang in there, you WILL get better!
