Oh yes, they are very confused inside and worry about sending the wrong impression, or not doing enough, or doing too much, etc. This is something Accuray posted a while back:
AS, this Accuray quote is very helpful for me. Thanks.
JP, I'm currently experiencing the cold side of it. Felt things had been warming up but cooled off since last week. Just need to use the quote above and keep my emotions even and expect the up and down to be part of the ride.