Been a while since I've been on here so feel I should update.
Me: new job!! Great job!! Not enough hours so still have fast food job on weekends, meaning I often work 7 days a week.... but the fast food shifts are usually only 4 or 5 hours so for now its manageable.
H: new job. he hates it.
kids: mostly ok. D18 has another new tattoo .... sigh.
R/M: oh who the heck knows. there's no discussion of it for the most part. Although, I did get this text from H the other day while he was driving back from a weekend gambling/visit the parents (and I always suspect visit the ow too)
In reflection I realize there are times you irritate me but overall I do like you. So I misspoke before.
Now if that doesn't warm the cockles of my heart... perhaps I too should get a tattoo... "Overall, my H does like me."
His visit with his parents was ok but he tells me over and over how he feels he has to "take dead sister's place" meaning she would have been the parental caretaker so now he MUST DO THAT. Not sure if this is baby steps to running home to Mom?
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
