Bea, I agree w/you. I never dreamed that I would experience such pain and disillusionmet w/my xh during his crisis. However, as you stated, it may not have been what we hoped for, but it does come out right in many other ways, is we continue to move forward and regain our selves.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
