Labor Day weekend, we moved all of her equipment out of the restaurant. The only verbal agreement FF lived up to during this entire endeavor –probably only because there were too many people who knew who the equipment really belonged to.
This month also marked a new era in our relationship status. W tried to dive back into our marriage like nothing had ever happened. I tried several times to talk to her about stuff, but, she denied there ever were issues, where just a few months ago there were too many to count.
I found this VERY puzzling as I didn’t think there was any way possible the 180’s I’d done could’ve worked that fast. I didn’t believe for a second that there was any way everything that made her unhappy could’ve been resolved that quickly.
Now, don’t get me wrong, certain aspects of this were a pleasant change from the last year, but, I thought it was WAY too soon to be acting like newlyweds. What had me worried was the fact that she couldn’t remember anything, she wasn’t sleeping, was having hot flashes, was depressed, etc… I thought she was in perimenopause or something. I was still very confused as to what was going on. She talked about needing to get a job, but, made no effort to do so.
So, in October, I planned a weekend for us to go ghost hunting at the haunted jail in St. Augustine (she likes that stuff) and a few of the tours. We had a blast.
