During the July 4th holiday, we went to Orlando to visit D#1 and her BF. W slept nearly the entire trip. When we got there she looked at me and said ‘It’s okay if you want to say ‘I told you so’.’ I asked about what, and she said FF tried to get her to sign over her 50% of the business to him since he was now up to $60k of his money in the business – supposedly with neither of them drawing any salary whatsoever. I looked her in the eyes and said that I might do that someday about some other subject, but, I wished I was wrong about this.
She told me that since FF had put so much personal money into the business, FF wanted her step down as an owner, and just be a manager drawing a salary. This, he told her, ’would give you an opportunity to leave your husband and get a place of your own. We could even pursue a relationship if you want.’
That was her first admission that he was trying to interfere in our marriage, yet he was still going thru counseling with his W. Never mind the fact that he was still bouncing paychecks to staff and checks to suppliers (he took over all bill paying in June, and blocked her access to any of the business accounts).
