We're all left with Sitch's that we don't want and aren't ideal but DBing gets YOU/US feeling better about ourselves giving us a better platform to work from and to plan our next form of attack at what the future has in store for us.
I'm very similar to you in that I do try and 'get away' before she comes to the door but I don't even think my W does that now. I don't know as I don't look back! Its strange because not seeing my W has helped me detach to the point of almost being dark but now I get butterflies at the thought that I might see her? Blimy the emotions we go thru eh!
M - 37 W - 35 T - 11 M - 5.5 SD13 D10 S4 ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12 Moved out 7 Dec 12 At present - Being the best dad i can be.
