So I need to establish stronger boundaries. I will ask laurie about this today.

How do you all suggest I bring it up or how to word it. I want to tell her that she will need to figure out a way to pay for gas because I am done doing that. I want to say 3 months has passed and that is plenty of time to have figured it out.

Or do I give a timeline? Like you have two weeks, after which I al not paying for gas anymore.

How should i approach this?


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017