OK, Very busy getting prepped for D17's prom this week, so I'll respond to everyone as soon as I can.
Need to vent tonight though.
The kids just told me that, at school, both of their Heads of House (senior masters in charge of pastoral care) had spoken to them.
The kids' have been questioned about their lack of a relationship with their father and told not to be swayed by 'how angry your parents are'.
From what the kids said, it appears that stbx has gone to their schools and told them that I am an angry, abusive woman who has turned the kids against him and is limiting his access to them.
He has also suggested that I and the kids are a potential threat to OW's niece and nephew who attend the same schools.
All of a sudden I understand the strange thing he said last time he was spewing at me: "The kids' schools won't do a thing."
About what? I thought. Never envisaged that he'd go to them to complain about me.
Clever way to retaliate, though. I can envisage the two of them cooking this up. I am the crazy bitter maniac ex-Wife who just can't move on. No wonder he left me.
