Ya, and it seems like everyday it is getting stronger. I attribute a little of that to disconnecting. I don't even try to engage my W anymore. For instance, tonight we did a parenting swap. I literally dropped D off, gave her a kiss and was pulling away before W came to the door....wrong?...maybe, but it really helps with detachment. It boils down to 'out of sight, out of mind". If I am not seeing her, hearing her or talking to her, it makes it so much easier to be uninterested. She sent me a few texts after I dropped Da off, trying to be nice and cordial. I understand that. However, I didn't really feel the same, so my reply texts were short and basic. I didn't even reply to her last message, because I had my own things going. It is probably doing NOTHING positive in regards to reconciling the marriage, but it is helping me to focus more on my own life...and that is the main purpose of DBing, so I am going with it for now.
