I've spent lots of time figuring out the lesson I needed to learn to be with my xh. It's fascinating as I look back and think how I spent all those years with someone who couldn't be what I needed him to be, But, then...what does that say about me??
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
