Yep, 2tp. I hid our marital crisis from family first and many friends later. For reasons I know you understand. And for a LONG time -- in some cases not disclosed until absolutely forced to (friends coming to visit and stay with me --- ummmm, where's your W? where's all her stuff?).

There was a close circle I had disclosed to. But, I can tell you, it was so cathartic when I peeled the curtains back and let the sun shine on it. And let my friends BE my friends. They will understand your absence -- when you tell them.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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