Lonely, Sad and No Communication

[Tallula]

Hey SBR - thanks for posting on my Sitch. I appreciate anyone who takes time to post.

I know your right and some of the things you mentioned I didn't think of! The thing is as time goes by I feel we will 'lose touch with one another' and it will be more awkward to be around one another which, as I texted her, isn't healthy as the kids will suffer.

I've been doing ok. I miss my W and family like mad but I've chosen to take this road and by GAL the house is really benefitting! I do have fears about the future but I'm gonna have to deal with that as and when they arise.

Thanks

Leaving them alone is really hard. It does feel like the opposite of what we should do, but I find that some days are just harder than others. Honestly, I am finding more peace with the less interaction I have. I don't stress over my texts or did I say the wrong thing. I have really made huge strides in detaching.

When I'm having a really bad day, I text a friend instead or re-read DR or come here & read sandi's rules.

Head up, friend!