grace, it's funny you mention PTSD. i totally agree! prior to BD and our separtion and all the spewing, i never had any bad dreams about my H. now i have so many nightmares about him where i'm angry or he's mean to me.

i firmly believe we will suffer from it for a while. i also believe it will effect our relationships with our S's in the future. it will be so hard to trust.

even though my H and i are piecing, i'm still not giving up some of the plans and preparations for D. i don't want to be caught by surprise again. sad but true.

i think it's a little like the people who grew up during the depression. they don't waste anything. they've been traumatized and don't want to be caught unprepared again.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing