Grace did your husband come around and become a better more connected father in the end?
I know he's trying. The R between D's and their Dad in their words is "superficial".
Youngest D's C had me come in in Dec and said that she doesn't think he really knows how to connect with girls at their ages now (20 & 17). She thought that if I was able to help facilitate their R in some way it would help them. <shrug> We'll see.