Which does bring up an online dating conundrum, btw. I'm dating a guy I met online. He's a Love Avoidant guy, so I'm careful not to come on too strong or scare him off. So my profile is still up - but really, I haven't got the time to be dating a second guy at this time. I feel a little bad for the hopeful guys who write me - but can't take my profile down lest Love Avoidant guy finds that scary lol!