I agree with Snodderly ... keep it brief, and simple. Have your son in the next room, or nearby, just in case. And, also for emotional support.

Again, I can see my H in yours ... I'm not a big spender either, but he will buy big items, and sometimes without telling me. This has been a big issue for me. When I worked, most of my money went on things for the house, groceries, and work clothes. I very seldom bought myself anything substantial. Oh well.

Good luck with telling your H.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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