Snodderly I am in the same position as Portia...and often wonder if what I am doing is right as i too was the distancer in the R. When my H left, there was no contact, because he was with OW and I was tired of competing for my own H. But, same thing as Portia, when he broke up with OW, he seemed to be coming around more and initaiting conversations. Right now we are on an email/text contact only other than Kid exchanges. If you get a chance, could you read through my post and see if you would give me the same advice as Portia?
Thanks.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life