Sounds like your W still has a battle between her heart and her head. Between fantasy and reality. Between what she wants and what she has.
Hmmm... That sounds familiar!
It seems like being "safe" is also coming at a price for you. I know it's hard to get unloaded on and hear things that are not so easy to hear.
Their minds are scary, aren't they?
You are a strong, confident and caring man that continues to be a rock for your W. Being a rock is hard work though. Real hard.
Keep up the great work of listening and validating, no doubt there is more to come from your wife.
AND... Don't forget to take care of you! I know this has to be emotionally draining for you. Add work, kids, house, life... You have a lot on your plate right now.
Rest and recharge tonight T - you deserve it.
Keep being awesome! (Which I'm sure comes quite naturally by now)
PS- she certainly didn't seem to find you repulsive recently if you know what I mean!!!! Actions speak louder than words...
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
