Hello All,

I have a group of dear real-life women friends that I met when I was going through my divorce. My actual divorce was in 2006, but I (like many here) separated many years earlier.

Since that horrible time I have healed (mostly) and my life is better in oh so many ways, including a committed exclusive relationship with a wonderful man.

One of my friends from the group has social events periodically and her latest invitation went out to her single friends. I went to the party, and I mentioned that I don't consider myself single.

What do you all think? Some of the ladies in the group are quite black and white about it: either you are married or not, and if you are not married you are single.

Well, I AM single according to the IRS, but I am not going to singles bars or otherwise looking for dates?

What say you?

SG