My friend had a suggestion for talking to my husband about the divorce. Said I should take his phone from its hiding place, show it to him and tell him I know he's talking to ow . Should I ? She's worried about me talking to h alone but he's never been violent. He is more distant than ever and so am I. Probably pining for ow. I can't figure out why he's still here. He mentioned moving out about a week ago because he is the cause of problems. I said nothing and he dropped it .