almost 3 months....seems like eternity

[Grizz]

I have to agree with sandi ( and I also really appreciate her insight, it has helped me tremendously). I actually told my W that I just needed some acknowledgement of whether I should keep trying to work on M. She said "I can't say yes or no. I don't know what to say". After hearing that and reading what sandi posts, that was obviously the wrong thing to say to her. It helps to know that she really doesn't know the answer and I shouldn't be looking for any signs.