The change has to start with you.

It is that simple and you have heard it a million times before.

The only person you can control or change is yourself and your reactions. And that will change your situation.

You S is not a child anymore and it is time you stopped thinking of him as one.

Be there if he chooses to contact you but know that he is responsible for his own choices and stop blaming your X.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox