Question: xSO has told me again that I should call him anytime anywhere. While he had the GF I did not contact him at all. But now that he doesn't have her anymore and has now asked me to call him, even though that is pursuit, should I bend a little and initiate some contact as well? I was the distancer in the relationship but maybe MLC has different rules when it comes to contact? I do not want to go overboard because I am still struggling with detaching (see above post) but we had such a good conversation. I would at least like to keep that dynamic if I can.
