Tori- How do I show love but still detach? The lovingly detach is such a confusing concept to me. If I am loving I don't detach, if I detach he perceives me as cold.
Well, I did it. I signed up for my first meetup ever. Tennis & social hour. I am a little nervous, but excited to do something new with new people. Just for me.
How do I tell H I am doing something, but when he's asks, "what & with whom?" (which he will) how do I answer honestly but still remain mysterious?
My two youngest sons had a C session today (2nd one). I talked to the C afterwards & she said how verbal S9 is & that when she talked to him about feelings he mentioned me a lot (positively) and didn't mention H at all.
S11 has had two very difficult days, including today at school (was sent to asst principal for being passive agressive and not doing what the teacher repeatedly asked him to do).
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
