Hi Guys, So I try my best and put a band-aid on, and obviously it isn't enough for such a big wound, so she inflicts me a deeper wound by separating, to make sure I'm wounded too and making sure that nobody heals, and that our S, the only one who has nothing to do with all of it, reaps the consequences of both our being immature...
Still the victim.^^^^ Bruce you don't have to agree with what she does, but it is so important to understand that she believes that what she is doing is the best option for her and her son right know. As human beings we should not ask each other to do anything less than what they believe is right. That doesn't mean her feelings can't change. Until you stop playing the victim, the dynamics of your r will not change.
How should I appear Thursday, interested by only S, or should I propose for W to see a counsellor, even if only ONE appointment?
Please do not do this.^^^^ What I said above goes with this. She does not think she has done anything wrong. So why would she need to see a counselor right now. I do hope someday the two of you will see a counselor together. Although it would need to be at her request, not yours.
Thank you for your insight, Bruce.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
