My wife's complaints have been that we don't have a social life. That can easily be changed. I have been making attempts to do that. Just contacted some friends of ours to get together for dinner some night. we are going skiing as a family with other couples in a couple of weeks.
This summer, we can get together with her friends or mine for games at the ballpark. We can rent a boat and go water skiing or tubing. Changes can be made, but it doesn't happen overnight.
My wife was probably attracted to my sense of confidence, sense of direction in my life and the fact that I didn't smother her. I am sure that I came across to her as though I really wasn't too wrapped up in her. I was doing my thing but I made room for her in my life. She eventually became quite big part of my life.
As I read my own words here, I am beginning to get a little clarity. Thanks for asking. I hope things are improving for you, 7720!
