In regard to my H's negotiation style, I think he might block me if he doesn't like what he sees. He might say he's going to get a L and complain, etc. So that's why I have to handle the conversation as positively as I can, or we'll get nowhere.
I'm leaning toward sending him the agreement right before I leave so he has time to look it over the weekend. I'm thinking this might be best bc I had already told him the L would send the agreement this week, so he's expecting it.
Busting, we seem to not be able to connect to our S's bc they are not allowing it. They are probably disconnected with their own true natures too. Basically, they've been hurt, they're afraid, they feel D will be the best way out, they don't see their part in the breakdown of the M, and they prob don't want to deal with their feelings. Good point you brought, that if they connect with us, they'll definitely question their choices, so they'll avoid it at all costs. So all we can do is send love.
This weekend I'm going to the Wayne Dyer seminar! CAN'T WAIT!! I need it.
