almost 3 months....seems like eternity

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Suckerpunch -

I have been reading your thread and trying to learn from all the great advice you are getting. I have not posted to you because I feel you are in great hands with Sandi and others.

And speaking of Sandi, and since you brought it up, I just wanted to post to say I agree that having her helping you out is an amazing gift. You are fortunate for it, and as she said, all of us who are also reading here are benefiting from her POV as well.

I now always try to remind myself of my H's perspective and pain as a WAS based on everything Sandi has shared on these boards. That inside look at my H's pain has been so important for me to keep me grounded and accountable of my own wrong-doings.

So thanks to Sandi and to you Suckerpunch, hang in there. This is a painful process but we can learn so much from it and become better people as a result, and for that, we should be grateful.