My question has to do with comments my w had made. We were talking about custody agreement and the money that goes along with it. It seems she thinks I am more concerned about the money that I have to pay her, and I think she is trying to get more than she should. She expressed concern that she stays home and plays games with the kids, while I am out with the kids doing things that cost money. I do take them climbing and things that do cost money, not anything expensive. She has also commented how I always am working and spending money on the house.
Is this normal jealousy of GAL activities, or something that is a general concern and a potential 180? I really enjoy those things and I will not stop climbing with my friends. I could easily have just as much fun staying home with the kids as well.
I am not sure if it is in the normal script for a WAS, but my W mentioned something just about as ironic a while ago. During a discussion about money, W mentioned how broke she was. I also mentioned that this S was putting me behind on bills. Then, (and this is the funny part), She had to audacity to say, "well, if you would watch you money better you would be fine paying your bills". She went on to say, "you eat out too often". Now, you have to take into consideration that I am literally paying EVERY household bill we have. My W abandoned the house and all of our joint responsibilities. On top of that, I still pay her medical insurance and her car insurance. I am putting a roof over her head and paying for all of her utilities. On the other hand, she has spent tons of money traveling, partying, clothes, you name it. She rented a hotel room for the weekdend so she could party in Vancouver BC just a few weeks ago. And don't forget, she makes roughly $500 a month now. She took a $2,000 pay cut by changing occupations job, just before BD.....but I eat out too often?...haha
It's simply the mindset of the WAS. They don't see things rationally!
