I’m curious if others have had similar situations where this goes on, but on the surface the couple acts almost as if there is no problem.
Just read threads here in Newcomers and you will find that your stitch is not unique.
Your W is in crises. I don't know if it's MLC, but it's certainly a crises....and now your M is crashing fast!
When a woman is not happy in her MR and then gets a lot of special attention (or maybe not that much, even)... it can mess with her head. Her unmet emotions take over. That is what's happening now.
You are in an extemely bad place, but not a hopeless one. Stay with us here. Keep us updated and seek out advice only here and not family memebers & friends b/c that usually doesn't go well.
Have you read Divorce Remedy?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
