AS and Spartan, thanks for letting me know I am not alone in those feelings!
It seems like, today anyway, I am almost on cruise control in regards to my W and M. She texted me AGAIN today regarding an up coming trip I might be taking to Vegas. She offered to switch me some parenting days. I just responded, "sounds good. I will let you know". But, the truth is, I don't even know if I am going to let her know. I am pretty confident making my own plans, and happy to make them work within my parenting needs. Besides, I know how to dial the baby sitters number if I have to
Spartan, I think you may be right. I have been pretty involved in my own things this last week and perhaps that is the reason for my change in focus. The funny thing is, most of the stuff I have been involved in isn't new. It's all the old stuff I do, like simply cleaning the garage and weeding the flower beds....I guess instead of referring to it as GAL, I will start calling it HAL (Had a life)...haha