What are your H's negotiating styles? I would opt for broaching the topic after you're back. If you do it before you go away, I imagine that there will be an added sense of urgency to get it settled before you leave. The longer you leave it, the better prepared you'll be.
Obviously, you wouldn't want it to drag on and on but just make sure you don't feel under pressure.
I hope your weekend trip is a nice one that will give you strength and insight.
((((( Tori ))))))
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
