He has now changed his story for wanting the divorce, he still wants one but instead of it being "its because your unhappy all the time" (because in the past 4 months I for surely GAL'd it and have been doing many things on my own, got my hair done, a make over, hanging out with friends, going around tokyo, ect. He admits I have been acting better these days but that now we are just "imcompatible."
Well the good news is that he is noticing your changes. It's normal for the WAS to resist it when the LBS changes, they either don't believe the changes or see them as temporary tricks to bring the WAS back. So just stick with it. Over time he may change his mind. Just give him as much time and space as you can.
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The meds he is on has helped him alittle but he is still not on full dosage yet and absolutely does not want therapy or to talk to anyone about his issues.
Is he on anti-depressants? It can take 4 to 8 weeks for them to really reach full effect, so maybe he just needs more time to adjust to them.
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In fact he gets verbally abusive with me if I even suggest it.
Don't pressure him about the M. Just pull back. Don't put any pressure on him at all. Every time you do it clearly doesn't go well, so don't do it!
