EXPERIMENTING with physical touch with W

[leopoldstotch]

Very confused as to how to treat wife. No doubt everyone will say I need yo focus on me. I am focusing on me, but how I act towards my wayward wife during this phase (often called plan A) is critical. And I need pointers.

Some of sandi's db rules seemed to not work in bringing my wife closer. With more affecting and a little touch and I feel she is warning. This is why I needed to talk to laurie to clarify.

You should be treating her like a roommate or co-worker because right now she isn't acting like a wife. How fast do expect to see results if any? Part of your problem is expect things to change right now and it isn't going to happen. You have zero patience and it's going to be your downfall.