Thanks BD. yep, that is what d10 is getting. I feel bad for you that you went through that and the scars are still there. She really does not understand the impact she is having on her relationship with d10. She overtly sides with d14 in their disputes. W also says to me that d10 is just like me. She thinks she is taking a shot at me but really it is at d10.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.