Sigh....

Duct tape works well...

Your therapist is for YOU, not her...

And you seeing him has ZERO to do with the marriage..

It has to do with YOU

Use him wisely....



The old marriage is gone, whether you Divorce or not.

Read that letter again...would YOU want to go back to that ????

Or would you rather take the time that you both need, to heal, and start fresh, with a relationship that you both want ???

While that isn't a guarantee, it is the only way a new relationship with her is gonna happen...

This is just another factor in your controlling tendencies...

You think that there is something wrong with her for feeling the way she does. And that it just needs..."fixed"

Stop worrying about her, and start taking care of your stuff...