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[dorightman]

Thx LaBug, I appreciate your support. Now if I have some luck keeping my w from getting us into mediation, I may be able to buy some time. W wants to do mediation and d ASAP. I've been asking her to please give me some time to do the work while we're separated. She feels like she can't trust any of my words because of my flip flopping. I'm afraid she will change the locks on our house after I move out because she has been acting very anxious and fearful. She is getting advice from divorced friends who have been through physical abuse.

I know I can't control her actions or thoughts, so I don't have a lot of hope.
My therapist believes I'll change with his help and he told me he wants to call her in after working with me for awhile.

I told her what he said and she acted defensively. She said she doesn't want to come in to work on the R. She's done.