Studies in Feral Cats, part 5

[Hopefull2]

T2,
Regardless of how it ended, it ended! Take the positives that she has expressed to you and watch closely to see how real they are. How deeply she wants to change. As far as the intimacy I ask if saying no to her would do more harm than good? Your goal is not to punish her but to try and draw her in and help her out of this pattern she has followed. Sometime there is no right or wrong....

Best to you friend. And I'm with FY, you won't find too many of us feeling sorry for you at this moment .