GH31 welcome back! Been a long time man.

I need some suggestions for reading material to develop my self. Suggestions ?

I missed my appointment with laurie today...dammit. I was 15 mins late calling her and I guess she was busy. Rescheduled for 3 days from now. I was anxious to find out what i'm doing!

Very confused as to how to treat wife. No doubt everyone will say I need yo focus on me. I am focusing on me, but how I act towards my wayward wife during this phase (often called plan A) is critical. And I need pointers.

Some of sandi's db rules seemed to not work in bringing my wife closer. With more affecting and a little touch and I feel she is warning. This is why I needed to talk to laurie to clarify.

Went to the show saturday night with W. Had a great time. Then went home and talked about how we missed D3 who was spending the night at MIL.

Made my W laugh, had a good time, like the good old days.


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017