If anyone is interested we had our 4 way meeting with the lawyers. It went we'll except for me having joint custody of my D. Basically my wife wanted to limit my time with D to be allowed to sleep over once a month and dinner once a week. Unacceptable. My lawyer worded it nicely saying living arrangements like that we're hurtful to my client. My wife's lawyer apologized and said well stbx had problems with visitations from her previous ex. No sh!t he was a jerk. Why is my stbx treating me like him?
As for the house my stbx had it appraised. Turns out I may not be able to afford to buy her out. After the meeting I talked to my lawyer. She commented how this was one of the fastest 4 way meetings they had. She also commented on how civil it was.
My stbx is a good person. When it comes to money she's not that good. Unfortunately she will have her SIL help her with her finances. Just as bad her SIL told my D she would be diciplining my D and keeping an eye on her grades. I would think this is something for mom and dad. Not the SIL who I think is a bit of a control freak.
