NLW, we're all travelers on the same journey.

Do your kids know that they don't have to listen to H when he gets like that? They can have boundaries.

As far as what's upsetting him, could be the prom, could be that his favorite socks weren't clean today.

Not your problem.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss