Is this cake eating 11

[littleGTO]

NLW,
I've been thinking about you & how brave you are to have shared the story about the parking lot incident.

When you described that I was there with you (metaphorically speaking). I understand your rage about OW and I felt that you did this because at the time you were acting on your emotions and couldn't help yourself (neither would I have), but it helped me release some of my feelings about the OW in my H's life too.

So, although we can agree it probably wasn't the "right" thing to do (in terms of the higher road and all) but are certainly validated in the feelings that were driving the incident.

Regarding your interactions now--good for you staying out of his R with the kids. They are old enough to speak for themselves (unless he crosses some unwritten boundaries of appropriateness). And of course he's angry that he's not been part of D's prom preparations...isn't he entitled to IT ALL?! LOL!

Keep up your inner strength, NLW...you have it in you!