It sounds like you are really making sure you are ready and doing the negotiating in the best way possible.
I think I know you well enough to know you will do this in person w your H. Definitely ask for more time if you feel the compromising side of you giving in when you didn't originally intend to.
Know your boundaries and EXACTLY what you want and what you are and are not willing to negotiate. When paperwork is done you need to be happy with what has happened. Your H will go off and live his own life & you don't want to say "if only I had..." (about the settlement, not DBing).
As far as DBing I hope I can follow in your shoes to some degree. Granted I have 3 boys to raise, so H will be a BIG part of our lives even after D (if it happens).
But, you are such an inspiration in dealing with all aspects of your R with your H & have put yourself in a great position to be open and ready for a new R--- an amazing, awesome, best-ever, happy, healthy relationship!
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M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
